A funny thing happened on the way to a memorial service. I don’t even remember what we were talking about, but a granddaughter of the deceased said, “well, it’s not written in stone….” In that moment, I made a connection that seemed so obvious I was at once wanting to think more about it and also wondering how I hadn’t thought of it before.
The idiom “written in stone” obviously refers to something written permanently; unchangeable.
The most obvious and best known example of which is, of course, the 10 Commandments. Think Charlton Heston or Mel Brooks, but we’ve all got imagery in our minds now, right? Those commandments were etched in stone. Literally carved. Permanent.
The 10 Commandments seem to be the go-to source for law and rightness. We’ve fought over putting them up on courthouse lawns and teaching them in public schools. Some people want you to think they are the foundation for western law.
All of this came flooding to me as we walked toward the sanctuary for the memorial service. All this was inspired by the simple phrase “written in stone.”
And then, just a split second later, I also realized this: Jesus was asked what the greatest commandment was.
He didn’t cite any of those 10.
Jesus went to Deuteronomy 6:5, which says
Love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your being, and all your strength. (CEB)
and that wasn’t enough. He wasn’t going for 10, though. He added this, from Leviticus 19, saying this one “is like it:
you must love your neighbor as yourself (Leviticus 19:18, CEB)
So, when Jesus was asked what the greatest commandment was, he didn’t go to something that was written in stone.
I am still wrestling with what this means, but I really felt I had to share it with you.